I need some help with a situation..

[manrossdamn 57]

Recently, I let my girlfriend borrow my SLR camera, wasn't a exspensive one, but lately there's been some drama going on and her mom supposedly "broke" it.

Now I don't know whether to tell my parents, or my brother who owns the camera, or just wait.

My teacher recommended that I go send her a letter via, regiestered mail.

That way she has to sign it.

Sorry for the stupid question guys..

[mrbojang 8]

Not sure man. Kind of a tough situation. Personally I would ask for the broken camera back...To make sure it is indeed broken, and to see if repairs are possible...

If they refuse...Call the cops.

[manrossdamn 57]

I know it is a really bad problem..

I'm thinking of going to their house today and asking for it.

But I asked one of my close friends to ask her brother (whom who dislikes me) to get it back.

But before he even asked the queston, his mom said "Don't ask for his camera."

Uncertain at this point.

But can the cops do anything to help?

Thanks for the advice.

[mrbojang 8]

I know it is a really bad problem..

I'm thinking of going to their house today and asking for it.

But I asked one of my close friends to ask her brother (whom who dislikes me) to get it back.

But before he even asked the queston, his mom said "Don't ask for his camera."

Uncertain at this point.

But can the cops do anything to help?

Thanks for the advice.

They're refusing to give you back your personal property. It's theft. Not sure on the value of the camera but it might even be grand theft in your state and a felony. I think just having a cop go to their door will help either way.

[Sir-Lancelot 216]

Yup, get the police involved if you can.

[manrossdamn 57]

Thanks guys, I will do soon

The camera was retailed value of 650$..

[cheese20323 13]

She prob told you its broken so she can keep it.

[Godsmack 361]

First off you said your brother OWNS the camera. So why are you lending out other people's property?

Since he LEGALLY owns it HE will have to get involved too.

Get him to get the cops involved, and ditch the bitch.

J

[manrossdamn 57]

Her mom is crazy, litterally.

Their dad called the cops on her three times for different reasons.

She constantly accused him of cheating on her, and then she broke their chandelier.

I didn't lend it, my brother is good friends with them too.

I was borrowing it and then she wanted to take pictures.

It's not her fault, her mom and dad are extremely self-righteous for they know what is all good and mighty for their children.

Not knowing it is their fault their daughter has turned out the way she is.

[Duran 387]

A daughter always ends up like her mother...always.

[Sir-Lancelot 216]

A daughter always ends up like her mother...always.

I hope not always.

[///M5 2,833]

A daughter always ends up like her mother...always.

I hope not always.

I've seen opposites as well.

[Duran 387]

Just give it time

[Godsmack 361]

A daughter always ends up like her mother...always.

Definatly not always.

Dude you make it sound as if she was using it without you there. If you were there then how did mommy get it and break it?

Just doesnt add up.

One other thing, her daughter has 'turned out the way she has' and yet you show no pics of said daughter?

This leaves me very confused. Post pics so we can see if the 'juice' is worth the squeeze.

J

[manrossdamn 57]

Her mom got pissed at her for me being over without permission cause I was chilling with her bro playing games.

The camera was sitting on her bed, and her mom start bitching at her then took the camera.

Her mom then proceeded to text me some very vague paragraphs about how she won't give it back.

Lol.

I let her use it, but not her mom.

Her mom just happened to get extremely pissed about nothing.

[cobra93 47]

Her mom got pissed at her for me being over without permission cause I was chilling with her bro playing games.

The camera was sitting on her bed, and her mom start bitching at her then took the camera.

Her mom then proceeded to text me some very vague paragraphs about how she won't give it back.

Lol.

I let her use it, but not her mom.

Her mom just happened to get extremely pissed about nothing.

If this is what actually happened ^^^^^^^.

I'd ask her to give the camera back, if she refuses tell her you will be calling the cops.

Tell her that you have saved the text messages she sent you and you'll be showing them to the cops as proof that she has your property.

If the cops don't do anything to help, I'd probably help myself to something of hers that carries the same value and I'd tell her what I did to her face (word against word, no record of proof).

If she doesn't give the camera back you're probably screwed.

You could take her to court, but even if she shows up and she's ordered to give the property back or XXX amount of cash there's nothing making her follow through after she leaves the courtroom.

Good luck! Hope you get this sorted out.

Edited December 12, 2010 by cobra93

[stevemead08 752]

A daughter always ends up like her mother...always.

And my mother in law is hot!. for real

[Sir-Lancelot 216]

A daughter always ends up like her mother...always.

And my mother in law is hot!. for real

Pics or you lie.

[Tirefryr 1,742]

A daughter always ends up like her mother...always.

I hope not always.

I've seen opposites as well.

Yup. My ex is nothing but a bitch and her mother is wonderful. I can name countless other instances as well.

Now if we are talking about physical attributes, that's a different story.

[stevemead08 752]

A daughter always ends up like her mother...always.

And my mother in law is hot!. for real

Pics or you lie.

Come on lance you know i never lie. let me dig up some pics from cancun real quick

[manrossdamn 57]

Haha thanks for the help guys

I plan on asking soon and I might take her to court.

[BanginGMC 23]

Shitty situation, her mom sounds like a cunt.. it is indeed only a camera though and if this is stressing you out a lot say "fuck it" and let the camera go.. Be sure to not drag out the situation because you are mad about the drama between you and the chick and not mad about the camera.

If it were me, and that happened.. i'd say fuck you and the camera, then get at another chick.

[tejcurrent 13]

Shitty situation, her mom sounds like a cunt.. get at another chick.

Fixed

You admit the girl is screwed up by her parents, and her parents are wack jobs. Ditch the girl and get your bros camera back or make sure he's reimbursed. You had the camera, it's your responsibility to take care of it.

[Sir-Lancelot 216]

A daughter always ends up like her mother...always.

And my mother in law is hot!. for real

Pics or you lie.

Come on lance you know i never lie. let me dig up some pics from cancun real quick

I know this, but you know I loves me some boobs. lol