I am curious when I act like a douchebag why aren't people nice?

[bobaloo321 0]

Ok, so I just deleted my old account for the fact, that everyone kept bashing me for shit that wasn't my fault, They told me to read the rules, and i only could find one rule that I thought I was breaking and it wasn't what they where talking about apparently. So I want to know why when I ask them to point out what I am doing wrong they won't tell me, and when i read the rules twice and I strill can't figure it out, I obvisouly need help figuring out what i was doing wrong. I just want to know why people just can't be nice and helpful like I thought forums where supposed to be like, not bashing me down just because I didn't know. like really I don't get it, i am a nice guy yet people on here can't be the same.

[thebiggmann12 14]

95 percent of the time its because people ask the same question that has been answered 100 times, and using the search bar will answer most of the questions people ask on here.

[Julian 641]

A lot of people on here are very nice and knowledgeable. It's just taking what they say, understanding it, and applying it. Some people come off as arsehos, but that's just how some people come off as, some of the MOST intelligent people on here can come off as a bit dickish. it's something not to take personally. Everything in car audio breaks down to Learning, Understanding, and application. That's how I've learned a lot of things. if you want people to answer your topics they need to be CONCISE , Understandable, and being able to communicate your needs and wants. Also, Not making multiple topics for the SAME thing if it doesn't get answered the first time or in a few hours review your thread and then correct it.

Edited January 27, 2010 by Julian

[loudcav 1]

Stupid people deserve stupid answers

[bobaloo321 0]

ok, thanks for your respones, but one of my topics was about something I was doing for fun and just out of complete boredom, and i was posting what i did for people to go either laugh at or be like cool, or something and people, started critizing me when it was just for fun, i wasn't doing it for an actual true setup.

[thebiggmann12 14]

well, when posting on a public forum, u should expect to get a public answer. just because u thought it was fun other people dont have to think the same thing. some people think it was dumb and they told you. thats what a public forum is all about, people stating opinions.

[bobaloo321 0]

ok, but sometime it makes me feel bad, I know they don't mean it personally but it still bothers me. I wouldnt be mean to someone if they did something I thought was dumb, I would just ignore the topic and move on.

[bigrank916 72]

ok, but sometime it makes me feel bad, I know they don't mean it personally but it still bothers me.

Are you serious? Thats ridiculous.

[loudcav 1]

grow some balls or get off the internet

[vladd 26]

ok, but sometime it makes me feel bad, I know they don't mean it personally but it still bothers me. I wouldnt be mean to someone if they did something I thought was dumb, I would just ignore the topic and move on.

Get ready to feel bad a lot. This world isn't a nice fluffy place like your mother pretended. Sometimes the truth hurts and it takes the swallowing of some pride to accept that you may have been a dumbass but learned from your mistakes and moved on. Alternatively you can bitch and whine because people tried to let you know that you were being a dumbass instead of just sitting back and watching you fail while laughing at you privately.

[rodneydude23 5]

It's constructive critisism dude. Take it in and learn from it, don't get all pussy hurt.

[PHATBOi 38]

Remove the tampon from your vagina, put on your big boy pants, and grow the f@ck up bro!

[dub26z 0]

Ok, so I just deleted my old account for the fact, that everyone kept bashing me for shit that wasn't my fault, They told me to read the rules, and i only could find one rule that I thought I was breaking and it wasn't what they where talking about apparently. So I want to know why when I ask them to point out what I am doing wrong they won't tell me, and when i read the rules twice and I strill can't figure it out, I obvisouly need help figuring out what i was doing wrong. I just want to know why people just can't be nice and helpful like I thought forums where supposed to be like, not bashing me down just because I didn't know. like really I don't get it, i am a nice guy yet people on here can't be the same.

I feel you on that one man i get bashed all day..you would think no question is dunb when your tryna learn...

[johnecon2001 82]

There will be no duplicate accounts made just because you got "yelled at" on the internet.

[Aaron Clinton 2,372]

:ehh: :ehh:

What in the world? I don't know who the user is as I don't understand who the original account was, and I know for a fact this is one of the most polite and friendly audio sites on the net.