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[sandt38 448]

Well that's it.............As of now married life seems to have run its course. Told the wife I have had enough unhappiness. Shit is not easy to admit.

J

Well that's it.............As of now married life seems to have run its course. Told the wife I have had enough unhappiness. Shit is not easy to admit.

J

????? What happened?

Jordan, are you ok?

Speak to us, we are here for you.

Much thanks guys.

I have been 'content' at most since our anniversary in Iraq. I can seriously count the number of honestly happy days on one hand and a thumb. Only one was she involved in, and even then she didn't need to be, it just kinda worked out that way.

Her personality, way of doing things, and interactions with me and everyone else has change so fucking much it drove me insane. I was hoping her leaving for Korea would make shit a bit better (the whole 'distance makes the heart grow fonder' shit), and yet add it in with my own issues and its become one hell of an explosion waiting to happen. I told her I'm willing to talk but I have seriously become un happy. Among part of the issues is being told 'I am too tired' all the fucking time except the last week she was here. It was always one excuse or another for no sex, for why she didn't want to stay out even if she was drinking and I was driving (when 3 mths ago she'd stay out all night with me), its like everything switched over. She'd talk to me about problems and before she'd listen and take my advice. For the past little less than a year, its like my advice, my opinion, my thoughts on almost anything didn't matter in the fucking least. She would take the 'passive aggressive' way out of things, which means not doing a goddamned thing about it, and letting others railroad her and her career like it was their main focus in life.

It's just made me one very unhappy individual. I am done being unhappy with what my life has become, and its not just the marriage.

Honestly as soon as the final verdict comes down about my 'career' and how I am leaving I intend to leave AZ and try to forget the last 6 years have happened.

J

I am not trying to sound like some frikken god of marriage, but I have had my own similar issues with it. I was married twice, my first wife got killed by a drunk driver. Honestly, when it happened I was rather indifferent. But after some time I realized that I married her for a reason, and I missed the hell out of her. Oddly, I didn't miss her when I left for SoCal and she stayed in Buffalo waiting for me to set up house. We had 2 kids, and they were in the car with her when she got killed. I took it worse than I thought, and started using again...

IMO we marry for a reason, and usually it is because she was an awesome fuck. But there is likely more there then you think. I have my little girlfriend on the side. If I really need to fuck, I could. But honestly, I never hammered that tack. My old lady and I fuck enough. She is pretty fine. But there were years when we never even knew what each other tasted like, and that sucks, because I love to eat some pussy.

Basically, I suggest you get a girlfriend. No need to fuck, it is just sometimes we need a female to hang with. We need our ego boost. I was lucky that I found a girl I really dig hanging with. She insists on fucking, but I refuse her. When I get it in my head I will tear the old lady up. If you are aggressive, the wife won't refuse. If she does, figure out what does it for her. A back rub, a shower together, get a dildo and fuck her with it, hell, lick her ass... Something will always do it for her.

You got married for a reason, and getting ass stops when she walks down the aisle. She doesn't have to give it to you, you have to earn it at that point. Who knows, maybe you'll dig what she does... But it would suck if you lost someone who was the one, like I did, and not even realize it before it was too late.

[Penguin4x4 1,761]

apparently people are "lynching" chairs in an homage to Eastwood's performance at the RNC. Yeeesh...

[Penguin4x4 1,761]

[Penguin4x4 1,761]

[Godsmack 361]

I just do them normal, but hold it for 90sec straight. It goes along with all the other gymnastic type training I've been doing.

My 2nd favorite ab exercise. only thing i like more is having 5 5 lb plates on the right side of your body, even with where your shoulder is. Go to the plank position. hold for 20 seconds. Move the plates one at a time using your right arm to the 12 o'clock position. go back to the plank for 20 seconds again. Use the left hand and move one plate at a time to the left side of your body. Hold another 20 seconds then move them back to 12 o'clock. hold another 20 seconds and use the right to move them back to the right. Hold another 20 seconds and drop. That's one rep. Do 3 sets of 5.

J

[ssh 924]

I just do them normal, but hold it for 90sec straight. It goes along with all the other gymnastic type training I've been doing.

My 2nd favorite ab exercise. only thing i like more is having 5 5 lb plates on the right side of your body, even with where your shoulder is. Go to the plank position. hold for 20 seconds. Move the plates one at a time using your right arm to the 12 o'clock position. go back to the plank for 20 seconds again. Use the left hand and move one plate at a time to the left side of your body. Hold another 20 seconds then move them back to 12 o'clock. hold another 20 seconds and use the right to move them back to the right. Hold another 20 seconds and drop. That's one rep. Do 3 sets of 5.

J

Sounds interesting. I suck at visualizing though.

[ssh 924]

Nevermind, I got it now.

[Godsmack 361]

Well that's it.............As of now married life seems to have run its course. Told the wife I have had enough unhappiness. Shit is not easy to admit.

J

Well that's it.............As of now married life seems to have run its course. Told the wife I have had enough unhappiness. Shit is not easy to admit.

J

????? What happened?

Jordan, are you ok?

Speak to us, we are here for you.

Much thanks guys.

I have been 'content' at most since our anniversary in Iraq. I can seriously count the number of honestly happy days on one hand and a thumb. Only one was she involved in, and even then she didn't need to be, it just kinda worked out that way.

Her personality, way of doing things, and interactions with me and everyone else has change so fucking much it drove me insane. I was hoping her leaving for Korea would make shit a bit better (the whole 'distance makes the heart grow fonder' shit), and yet add it in with my own issues and its become one hell of an explosion waiting to happen. I told her I'm willing to talk but I have seriously become un happy. Among part of the issues is being told 'I am too tired' all the fucking time except the last week she was here. It was always one excuse or another for no sex, for why she didn't want to stay out even if she was drinking and I was driving (when 3 mths ago she'd stay out all night with me), its like everything switched over. She'd talk to me about problems and before she'd listen and take my advice. For the past little less than a year, its like my advice, my opinion, my thoughts on almost anything didn't matter in the fucking least. She would take the 'passive aggressive' way out of things, which means not doing a goddamned thing about it, and letting others railroad her and her career like it was their main focus in life.

It's just made me one very unhappy individual. I am done being unhappy with what my life has become, and its not just the marriage.

Honestly as soon as the final verdict comes down about my 'career' and how I am leaving I intend to leave AZ and try to forget the last 6 years have happened.

J

I am not trying to sound like some frikken god of marriage, but I have had my own similar issues with it. I was married twice, my first wife got killed by a drunk driver. Honestly, when it happened I was rather indifferent. But after some time I realized that I married her for a reason, and I missed the hell out of her. Oddly, I didn't miss her when I left for SoCal and she stayed in Buffalo waiting for me to set up house. We had 2 kids, and they were in the car with her when she got killed. I took it worse than I thought, and started using again...

IMO we marry for a reason, and usually it is because she was an awesome fuck. But there is likely more there then you think. I have my little girlfriend on the side. If I really need to fuck, I could. But honestly, I never hammered that tack. My old lady and I fuck enough. She is pretty fine. But there were years when we never even knew what each other tasted like, and that sucks, because I love to eat some pussy.

Basically, I suggest you get a girlfriend. No need to fuck, it is just sometimes we need a female to hang with. We need our ego boost. I was lucky that I found a girl I really dig hanging with. She insists on fucking, but I refuse her. When I get it in my head I will tear the old lady up. If you are aggressive, the wife won't refuse. If she does, figure out what does it for her. A back rub, a shower together, get a dildo and fuck her with it, hell, lick her ass... Something will always do it for her.

You got married for a reason, and getting ass stops when she walks down the aisle. She doesn't have to give it to you, you have to earn it at that point. Who knows, maybe you'll dig what she does... But it would suck if you lost someone who was the one, like I did, and not even realize it before it was too late.

Sorry for your loss brother. I have had the 'ego boost' shit around. Its one of those things where I just no long want the wife and her shit. Its gotten too deep and my waders aren't tall enough. The getting ass didn't stop until about 2 months before we came back from Iraq.

I guess its just one problem after another with the marriage. Should we of done more to fix shit before she left? Prolly so. But neither of us put in the time and effort. As for losing the one........I have been there and done that but not how you had to experience it. I had one hell of a girl years ago, and lost her because of my inability to be be completely honest. I regret it every day.

J

[Kangaroux 47]

It's a Motley Crue kinda night

[dem beats 1,223]

So, I found these chips called pop chips. They don't have a ton of chemicals, are nonsense crunchy, and are really low in kcal and sodium for a snack chip. I am really impressed.

I really like ultra crunchy snacks and this one is a winner. I am shocked.

[ricksi30 923]

Hey I'm tding reguarding the subwoffers

My immediate response: Okay, do you have any questions?

No answer.......

I hate craigslist! I never thought that it would be this hard to sell two subs for 75 dollars. I've had them up for months.

[///M5 2,833]

For the sake of current discussion cheese is not something I would consider processed. Miso or tofu would then also be considered processed would it now and thus be bad for you. You had recommend that as a great protein source.

Non-pasteurized real cheese no. Fake cheese made from powdered whey, yes.

I re-read my statement though, surely didn't sound like that was what I was saying. Imagine that though, a short cut after going to three vineyards, lol.

[///M5 2,833]

What is the point of that? Unless you hold it for some absurd amount of time, it is kind of a sillly exercise.

For your core, if you hold it for a while, you can feel it. Personally, I need to be doing more exercises like this, part of the reason why I have tried to squeeze some yoga in from time to time.

No doubt. Bridges are by far the best for core. Any of the Indian work out programs will change your life. Indian wrestling or yoga are both core destroyers. So is snowboarding BTW.

Wakeboarding even more so. Amusingly snowmobiling is pretty good on your core as well.

[///M5 2,833]

What the hell is it with unboxing videos ? What's so interesting ?

Did you get a new toothbrush?

[Penguin4x4 1,761]

[Penguin4x4 1,761]

[Penguin4x4 1,761]

[Aaron Clinton 2,372]

All these little things that keep showing up online about the iPhone5 being already behind. Who would be stupid enough to go and wait in line on the first day to buy one of these at full pop? errr..... oh wait....

[Penguin4x4 1,761]

[Tirefryr 1,742]

Funny shit. . . As I'm scrolling down my page, this photo stopped halfway through. I read the ,"choo choo," and literally out loud to myself said, "motherfucker," then the picture fully loaded. Awesome. I am psychic.

[Penguin4x4 1,761]

[Penguin4x4 1,761]

[Aaron Clinton 2,372]

[dem beats 1,223]

Rental car for the trip this weekend is a mazda 6. It isn't a pile of shit. Zippy for what it is.

I find it has a ton of road noise. I wish I could have got one of the new Taurus.

[ssh 924]

Rental car for the trip this weekend is a mazda 6. It isn't a pile of shit. Zippy for what it is.

I find it has a ton of road noise. I wish I could have got one of the new Taurus.

That's what I drove yesterday (moms car).

Think hers is an 06. Fairly quick, but the interior is cheap, and had the tranny go at under 60k miles.